The one I call "FarawaySweetie" (see River's Blog) isn't officially my "girlfriend" 'cause we've yet to meet face to face, but we're really really good, close friends who share a romantic attraction toward one another, and just love one another so much. Anyway, she and my longtime partner, Kevin, have been exchanging email and talking on the phone. And they seem to really enjoy one another's company; and there is growing affection between them. So I know just what you mean. It feels good, don't it?
River's Blog: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3090