and they get along great! I just had to share because I am relatively new to polyamory. My husband and I have dated women in the past, but I didn't know how he would handle my being with another man. Well, I've been seeing J for a few weeks now (not a long time, I know), and when he came to pick me up, he and my husband chatted FOREVER. I actually had to pull J away from DH so we could leave! I'm so happy that they are so comfortable around each other; I imagined it being much more awkward.