It sounds like he assumes you should know his boundaries. That isn't fair. Stuff happens and all there is to do is keep talking and keep working towards an agreement. There is nothing to be guilty about in that. That's how it works. Ya, maybe this was too fast for him, but vetoing is extreme and controlling. Taking a break to reorganize and figure some stuff out is necessary and smart!
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