Seriously hoping this question doesn't offend and really this is not my business.
Niikkiana, I am curious as to what is the thing that keeps you and your husband together?
The issue of communication has little to do with someone being monogamous. I'd say your best bet is just to swallow hard, sit your friend down and just tell him how it is. I almost think he might have a hope of being your "primary" partner from the sounds of it.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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Last edited by MonoVCPHG; 10-27-2009 at 05:02 AM.