Originally Posted by SNeacail
She wants to be the focus of ALL your sexual activities, including the solo ones, yet she is allowed to have something on the side. WOW talk about self centered.
I don't think this has anything to do with being self-centered. Actually I'm offended by your statement. Her initial reaction to this conversation was WAY better than my initial reaction to her request to see another guy. We just have to sort out our positions on this stuff given the new lifestyle / viewpoint. As with anything new, there's going to be a learning process and some growing pains.