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Old 09-03-2011, 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted by justlost View Post
Hard to imagine why we are trying to save this marriage when our relationship has devolved to nothing but the mundane.
Exactly why a married couple needs to make time for hot dates with each other, whether they are poly or mono or whatever. But especially when one spouse has another relationship -- it's important that you're not just there for the mundane. I say, start planning a sexy evening to surprise him with!


And don't think I was kidding about giving him his shirts to bring to her to do, hahaha!
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