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Old 09-03-2011, 05:41 AM
MichelleZed MichelleZed is offline
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I think your wife is making up excuses for why she doesn't like porn. "There's no love involved" seems like a rationalization. Does your every sexual thought have to involve deep feelings of affection and attachment? That just seems like way too much to ask of a regular person.

In fact, since you're poly, you're probably juggling not just love for her but also loving feelings for other people at the same time. That's a lot of pressure. In some ways, masturbation/porn is just a nice break from that--a sexual release that has nothing to do with love. That's kind of the point.
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