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Old 09-03-2011, 05:30 AM
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Just as there is no specific polyamorous Lifestyle, there is no official polyamorous opinion on porn, internet or otherwise. Individuals make their own decisions about what is acceptable in their relationships. You can wave the poly flag and use it as an excuse to do lots of things your wife takes issue with, be a total asshole if you want to -- but at what cost to your marriage? Remember, the focus of polyamory is having multiple loving relationships. Sex is a part of loving relationships, but not the only thing, and not the main focus. Always ask yourself if what you're doing is ethical and loving toward the people in your life and you'll know if that is acceptable in poly.
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