as predicted my wife took the test and here are the results.
8 7 Words of Affirmation
8 8 Quality Time
1 3 Receiving Gifts
2 9 Acts of Service
11 3 Physical Touch
this does give me something to work on. i have been doing more around the house to help out and make me more active. even after messing up last week, we are on a better track.
knowledge is power, but understanding is the key.