Originally Posted by opalescent
You're an adult. Why in hell should you be grounded for anything?
Ditto. It wounds like you both need to grow up a bit, sit down and have a real conversation about expectations, limitations (what he can handle, not what he's going to impose on you), and some good, old-fashioned communication instead of covering up feelings with just grounding someone.
Unless you're in a D/s relationship. Then this probably works wonderfully. Although you've said you didn't negotiate this, so it's still not healthy.
Man, if one of my partners evern tried to ground me, I would laugh in their faces ...