The title or role is really just for my benefit. The need to know where I belong and how to handle everything. I know it seems silly and I am working on that. My husband and I will never be done trying to make our marriage work for the best. It will always be a work in progress that's for sure.
I have just today brought up the idea of everyone going to counseling so we will have to wait and see how it goes. My counselor is knowledgeable of this lifestyle and is a great person.