I agree that what you're asking is a bit vague. Has anything changed (and if so, how?) since you wrote this in another thread:
Originally Posted by lovinhimloviner
At my house we have 2 couples. Me and my H are both in relationships with other people. My biggest issue is time spent with my H. H on the other hand does not like the fact that I love someone else too. He understands and tries not to have a double standard but it is still hard on him. When we just had an open relationship and it was just sex he was kind of ok with it. Mainly, I think, because I rarely did anything with someone else. Love on the other hand is harder on him.
Do you all live together?