So I have gotten a few chances to talk to John over G-talk!!!!!
And F and I took a vacation together. A whole week. His friends were suppose to go but bailed, so he asked me.
John said it was early, but at least it gave me a chance to learn any "oh moment" - you know, that moment you learn the deal breaker.
F was AWESOME, the trip was AWESOME.
I talked to John most days on the trip, and F acted perfectly. I really think that if F can handle everything, that he is the one I've been looking for. He compliments John so well. The two of them are perfect counters that fulfill all my needs. Well, so far.