Sorry, late to the game here, but is this your first child? If so, enjoy all this now as its about to get CRAZY
I didn't date again for 3 years after my son. I am so glad I took the time and gave him every ounce of my attention..... best thing I EVER did actually. Sure, I missed out on me moments and hot times with new people, but I sure know what my freedom is worth now and know what it is like to have a well adjusted son because I took the time. "Attachment parenting" was awesome for us!