Originally Posted by redpepper
I live in a MFM vee and understand your concern. For us it has been 2 and a half years. I really don't care what people think any more. It sucks too much of my energy to be concerned.
We just got on a ferry from western canada to main land USA and I was all set to tell the boarder crossing customs person that I was with my husband, boyfriend and son. *shrug* I figure they will think I am divorced and we are all still close. Whatever, its the truth and people will eventually get used to that. Most in my life are and the greater community will in time. Change occurs when we just live our truth I reckon.
I don't spend a lot of time broadcasting my poly-ness, but I also don't make any effort to hide it. I agree that it takes too much energy.
"But you've got to be tough when consumed by desire
'Cause it's not enough just to stand outside the fire
Life is not tried, it is merely survived
When you're standing outside the fire"
Garth Brooks and Jenny Yates