You can wait, but there's a difference between patience and letting your husband avoid the conversation altogether. Based on what you shared in your last thread, I strongly recommend professional help. It seems there are some deep problems in your marriage and neither of you sound very happy.
At some point (probably sooner rather than later) your discussions need to happen. Pretending the problems don't exist and/or simply refusing to talk about them is not going to make them go away (I should know!)- and may even make them worse because one or both of you are going to just build up emotional pressure until something explodes.
What's happening now really doesn't sound healthy.