How did you know?
 

I've recently started dating a guy that has open me up sexually, and after some thinking I think I may be interested in a polyamorous life style. How did discover this was the way for you? Are there things I shou;d think about that will make me more or less sure of what I may want?

Thanks everyone for your help!!

I've got zero to offer for advice but thought I would say hi :) I had to check out your profile with a handle like Imnotawhore :eek:

Lol, it's an LMFAO song, but I think it fits nicly with the nature of the life style. Just because you like/love/ or become intimate with more then one person at one time doesn't mean you are "whorey".

And hello back =)

I don't have much advice either... as I didn't "discover" I was poly. It has always felt as natural to me as breathing.

I've always found in difficult to love just one person. I'm not sure if this means I am ultimatly poly. I figured the best way to find myself or what I am all about or looking for is to read everyone elses stories, and ask for plenty advice. I want just want everyone else does from life, to be happy. I just have to figure out what it is that makes me happy I guess. I'm open to explore what I may enjoy, and finding out what I truly desire.

By the way Mono, I have your avitar (well similar) down my left side. I love the tree of life =)

Cool! My left forearm is completely wrapped in two trees that represent me and Redpepper.

Thats so sweet =) I am trying to upload a picture, resizing and what not.

I've always found myself loving more than one person, even against my own desire to do so. How did I know I wanted to pursue the poly lifestyle? I was already in love with my husband, then fell for my (now ex) girlfriend. And he, unlike any other person I was in a relationship with before, supported me.

I am in the same boat right now :)