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JeremyandDevin 09-21-2009 03:53 PM

Jeremy and Devin in Minnesota
 
Hey Guys,

My partner and I are way new to the whole poly lifestyle. I am a 20 year old, young professional in the Minneapolis area and my partner works in retail and the food and beverage industry. We just found a potential third boyfriend that we are both very much interested in. Anyway I just, wanted to introduce myself, and if anyone has any advise on how to have a healthy poly relationship with this new person. Please let me know. I am open to discussion and assistance to make my life the way I'd like it. Thanks!

MonoVCPHG 09-21-2009 04:13 PM

Welcome!

WaywardDruid 09-21-2009 05:25 PM

Welcome to the Forums.
 
Welcome Jeremy & Devin. I hope you find all you desire and those you seek.

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Just Me,
Tim

foxflame88 09-21-2009 06:46 PM

Welcome to the group. This board is full of wonderful people that are full of insight and advice.

JeremyandDevin 09-21-2009 06:56 PM

Advise
 
Let's start with the advice then. Im excited as well as scared as to how this relationship could go down the tubes. My partner and i ahve been together for about two years now, and the guy we have met is a bit younger than we are but only by two years. We haven't made it official with him, but he is aware of our intentions to share our love with him in a poly type of relationship. I honestly need to know, the do's and dont's on this and any advise you can do. Thanks to all of you for the warm welcome!

NeonKaos 09-21-2009 07:25 PM

For one thing, two years is not really "a bit younger" unless you are 18 and he is 16. My husband is two years younger than I am and I consider us the same age.

JeremyandDevin 09-21-2009 08:23 PM

true
 
I guess thats a good point. I am 20 almost 21 and my partner is 20. Our potential new partner is 18. The number thing really isnt an issue from what I can see, its maturity. This guy is pretty mature for his age but I still worry about his relationship history, he has none. He hasn't ever had a "bf" so his issue is that. lol I really don't know where I am going with this.

vandalin 09-21-2009 08:25 PM

This will just be another welcome to the forums post, and a big welcome to you as we are in the same neck of the woods. :) Mpls is currently our home as well.

So welcome to the forums and I hope you find what you are looking for.

JeremyandDevin 09-21-2009 08:28 PM

vandalin?
 
Thanks for the welcome!

River 09-21-2009 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JeremyandDevin (Post 7351)
Anyway I just, wanted to introduce myself, and if anyone has any advise on how to have a healthy poly relationship with this new person. Please let me know. I am open to discussion and assistance to make my life the way I'd like it. Thanks!

The basic stuff is always simple: Love one another. It can be that simple. Really, it can. So I won't get unbasic just now. Who needs it? Love one another. Do so well.

Welcome!


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