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Skyblue 02-26-2011 01:33 PM

"love outside the box"
 
met a girl recently ws goin 2 date with but ended up seeing sum1. I was really glad to hear this but also she was thinking of setting me up with her friends. I got rlly xcited & emailed a .gif "love outside the box" not really thinkn tht sh probs not know wth it means. So I ended up feeln like I had jumped on the soapbox without thinkn. I had to explain it all -she said "so are you looking for a relationship or are you looking for fun?" My answer might be a lot more complic8d thn tht. I'm playing a dangeorus game where I might not get any intro's what so ever. How the forumppl d8d b4? what d8ing expereinces have ppl had like this? or any general advice pls

BlackUnicorn 02-26-2011 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Skyblue (Post 68398)
met a girl recently ws goin 2 date with but ended up seeing sum1. I was really glad to hear this but also she was thinking of setting me up with her friends. I got rlly xcited & emailed a .gif "love outside the box" not really thinkn tht sh probs not know wth it means. So I ended up feeln like I had jumped on the soapbox without thinkn. I had to explain it all -she said "so are you looking for a relationship or are you looking for fun?" My answer might be a lot more complic8d thn tht. I'm playing a dangeorus game where I might not get any intro's what so ever. How the forumppl d8d b4? what d8ing expereinces have ppl had like this? or any general advice pls

Have mercy on those of us whose first language isn't English! No numbers or too many abbreviations, please.

NeonKaos 02-26-2011 11:44 PM

This is now in its own thread.

Skyblue 02-27-2011 12:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Skyblue (Post 68398)
met a girl recently ws goin 2 date with but ended up seeing sum1. I was really glad to hear this but also she was thinking of setting me up with her friends. I got rlly xcited & emailed a .gif "love outside the box" not really thinkn tht sh probs not know wth it means. So I ended up feeln like I had jumped on the soapbox without thinkn. I had to explain it all -she said "so are you looking for a relationship or are you looking for fun?" My answer might be a lot more complic8d thn tht. I'm playing a dangeorus game where I might not get any intro's what so ever. How the forumppl d8d b4? what d8ing expereinces have ppl had like this? or any general advice pls

no worries folks I'm getting help with this elsewhere

SNeacail 02-27-2011 02:42 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn (Post 68411)
Have mercy on those of us whose first language isn't English! No numbers or too many abbreviations, please.

That's not English, textish maybe.:p

Magdlyn 02-27-2011 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Skyblue (Post 68398)
met a girl recently ws goin 2 date with but ended up seeing sum1. I was really glad to hear this but also she was thinking of setting me up with her friends. I got rlly xcited & emailed a .gif "love outside the box" not really thinkn tht sh probs not know wth it means. So I ended up feeln like I had jumped on the soapbox without thinkn. I had to explain it all -she said "so are you looking for a relationship or are you looking for fun?" My answer might be a lot more complic8d thn tht. I'm playing a dangeorus game where I might not get any intro's what so ever. How the forumppl d8d b4? what d8ing expereinces have ppl had like this? or any general advice pls

translation

I met a girl recently. Was going to date with [her] but she ended up seeing someone [else]. I was really glad to hear this but also she was thinking of setting me up with her friends. I got really excited and emailed a .gif "love outside the box," not really thinking that she probably didn't know what I meant.

So I ended up feeling like I had jumped on the soapbox without thinking. I had to explain it all -she said, "So, are you looking for a relationship or are you looking for fun?" My answer might be a lot more complicated than that.

I'm playing a dangerous game where I might not get any introductions [to other potential dates] whatsoever. How have the forum people dated before? What dating experiences have people had like this? Or any general advice, please.

BlackUnicorn 02-27-2011 06:06 PM

Thank you, Magdlyn!

I've gotten that 'are you poly or just looking for fun?'. OkCupid is easy since you can bring it up in your profile asap.

Skyblue 02-28-2011 11:51 AM

Thanks Magdlyn
 
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve.

~Percy Byshe Shelley

Love PB Shelley: If they don't get it then its not worth it right? - and thanks for translating my post for us - I'm awfull sorry for the inconvenience ppl!


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