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72aircooled 02-15-2014 05:36 AM

New here
New here. Not sure what to say about me. I'm 26 and married to the love of my life. We have decided though, after 6 years, that we both have needs and desires which cannot be fully fulfilled by each other alone. She has a committed boyfriend, I am still looking for a girlfriend. Not sure exactly what I want, as I am still figuring out my sexuality. Any questions or helpful tips are much appreciated.

kdt26417 02-17-2014 10:48 PM

Greetings 72aircooled,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Are you thinking you may be somewhat bisexual? Would you be interested in dating both men and women? Something to decide on before going too much further.

You can check out the Dating & Friendships subforum and post there if you want, it may help you to find what you're looking for.

There are many possibilities out there; I'm sure we can find out what will meet your needs. Have a look around and let us know if you have questions.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

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If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!

JaneQSmythe 02-17-2014 11:41 PM

VW fan?
Hello and welcome!

Your username caught my eye - the first car I purchase for myself was a 74 VW SuperBeetle:D...

Advise? Read, discuss, communicate...

People come to poly from all different direction and poly comes in all kinds of shapes and sizes. My story is told in my blogs on this site and lots of other people have shared theirs in the "LifeStories and Blogs" subforum.

Ask questions and take eveyone's opinion with a grain of salt...enjoy your time with us!


72aircooled 02-18-2014 01:10 AM

Thank you for the greetings.
I have been with both men and women. I prefer women over men, 99% of the time. I just like to explore and have fun.
Still new to non monogamy, I suppose. Wife and I used to have threesomes, which is where I learned to enjoy the occasional man.
Just learning how to deal with the emotions as there are many in this lifestyle.
I'm here to discuss and learn from others, gain support, make friends. Hopefully, I'll be able to pass along something I've learned along the way.
My daily driver is a 72 vw type 3 fastback. It's my first. It's bumper less, with custom front turn signals. Bullet type. Tee handle shifter. I think it's sexy.

kdt26417 02-18-2014 01:32 AM

Sounds good. :) We're glad to help and there's lots of stuff to learn and friends to find here. Enjoy!

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