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meganandkristen 01-23-2014 11:39 PM

We have been together for three years on saint patties day. We have dated a few people in a FFF relationship and only really date as a couple. We talk and get to know people separate however do everything together. We are here to get some information and see if there maybe are any unicorns out there. We are very open as a couple and love meeting new people.

nycindie 01-24-2014 12:10 AM

Unicorns are mythical creatures that do not exist!

meganandkristen 01-24-2014 12:17 AM

That just depends on who you ask. I mean if you are literally looking for a magic horse then yes they are lol. But if you are looking for that rare amazing person to complete your Triad. Who would be able to be fully committed to two people I beg to differ ;)

nycindie 01-24-2014 12:33 AM


Originally Posted by meganandkristen (Post 258006)
. . . if you are looking for that rare amazing person to complete your Triad. Who would be able to be fully committed to two people I beg to differ ;)

Um, oka-aaaay, but there's a reason that ideal is called unicorn-hunting!

meganandkristen 01-24-2014 12:38 AM

I am by no means claiming it to be easy. . However I do know it is possible! I have seen a few rare cases and know some people VERY close who have found a few great "unicorns" Out there :D

nycindie 01-24-2014 12:49 AM

Well, then, I wish you luck. You certainly have a very positive attitude!

kdt26417 01-24-2014 01:03 AM

Greetings meganandkristen,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I see no problem in what you're looking for, just so long as that "magical third person" is someone you'll treat well and eye-to-eye as an equal and a fellow human/lover. No fundamental objectifying, 'kay? Oh and have patience ...

The Dating & Friendships subforum may prove helpful in your search. Also I know of some links to poly-friendly dating sites and group searches. Let me know if that'd help ...

Glad to have you with us.
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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meganandkristen 01-24-2014 01:06 AM

Our ideal person would be someone 100% our equal.

Natja 01-24-2014 01:26 AM


Few women want to be called a Unicorn, it is just so awfully objectifying.

meganandkristen 01-24-2014 01:28 AM

And thank you!!! Lol had to take the computer to the Mrs at work so I didn't finish that thought...

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