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aussielover 08-25-2009 04:05 PM

Don't know much about picking up but geez...
 
Ok, so in preperation for me going down under, I joined a yahoo group for Poly Aussies.
Got to talking to a couple people and after a few emails back and forth with this one guy who happened to live in Sydney and telling me which sites to see, (also knowing the kind of relationship I'm involved in) he asked me if when I was there I would want to get together and sleep with him. :eek:

I was rather shocked to say the least. He said he liked making love to like minded people. Now, I know I'm still new, and my mono-poly relationship doesn't have me searching for people, but is this normal? After just a few emails exchanged, no pictures or anything, this guy wanted to jump in bed with me just because I happened to be in his city. ANd because I happen to be poly, he thought I'd accept? Wtf?

Needless to say I declined and haven't heard from him since, but that really put me off.

River 08-25-2009 04:25 PM

Sounds like just another schmuck with a loose screw to me.

Pun intended regards the "loose screw".

Hey, that's almost as good as Mono's "monopoly rules".

vandalin 08-25-2009 06:25 PM

Yup, sounds like he was just looking for a quickie with no meaning. I wonder if his definition of poly is different than yours.

aussielover 08-25-2009 06:34 PM

CLEARLY it is. Even if I were not in a mono-poly relationship. Isnt' the whole point LOVING others, emotional connections? Not just a quicky with a stranger.

AutumnalTone 08-25-2009 07:52 PM

Sounds like some sad sack who can't build relationships and thinks that poly = swinger. I say we have to expect a proportion of any poly group would be of that sort.

MonoVCPHG 08-25-2009 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SeventhCrow (Post 5472)
I say we have to expect a proportion of any poly group would be of that sort.

Expect it and have seen it. Don't take it to heart AussieLover.

aussielover 08-25-2009 09:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG (Post 5475)
Expect it and have seen it. Don't take it to heart AussieLover.

Naw I didn't. I was just like, wtf? lol Rather glad he stopped contacting me after I refused him. I even did it nicely lol

foxflame88 08-25-2009 11:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRiverMartin (Post 5438)
Sounds like just another schmuck with a loose screw to me.

Pun intended regards the "loose screw".

ROFL Good one! I couldn't agree more.

Sunshinegrl 08-26-2009 12:40 AM

lol sheesh..Think We are gonna have to Put a Set of Dog tags on you! lol A Unicorn Collar!
:P

The nerve of some poeple!!

aussielover 08-26-2009 01:45 AM

teeheee


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