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SourGirl 08-23-2010 04:00 PM

My label fell off...
 
and I feel so naked ! :p

...I am curious about something regarding the term 'pansexual'. Looking up definitions of it, I see there seems to be a grey area between bisexual and pansexual.

If a self-proclaimed bisexual woman, is attracted to males who cross dress, but not 'transgendered' people, does that render a changing of the label ? Or not ?

NeonKaos 08-23-2010 04:31 PM

I think "pansexual" is just something invented by people who don't like the term "bisexual", but it basically means the same fucking thing.

marksbabygirl 08-23-2010 04:42 PM

For me, I use pansexual because I am attracted to the PERSON not the gender.

I have met some very amazing cool gender-neutral people. One who refers to themselves at "them, their, it"

I find them to be very attractive. But its not a him or a her... :)

So for me - pan is open and accepting.

Apparently though, according to a quiz I took on OKcupid - I'm bi but slightly more on the gay side ;)

I am a pansexual switch... I'm just greedy :D

Derbylicious 08-23-2010 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by marksbabygirl (Post 41365)
I have met some very amazing cool gender-neutral people. One who refers to themselves at "them, their, it"

I find them to be very attractive. But its not a him or a her... :)

I have never met someone who is gender neutral. I didn't even know there was such a thing...you learn something new every day.

marksbabygirl 08-23-2010 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Derbylicious (Post 41383)
I have never met someone who is gender neutral. I didn't even know there was such a thing...you learn something new every day.

You need to come hang out in Fetlife more ;)

Come to the dark side... we haz cookies :D

Gender neutral, gender fluid.... lots of them over there :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pansexual

MonoVCPHG 08-23-2010 06:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Derbylicious (Post 41383)
I have never met someone who is gender neutral. I didn't even know there was such a thing...you learn something new every day.

Your girlfriend is pansexual...so's mine coincidentally ;)

Derbylicious 08-23-2010 06:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG (Post 41388)
Your girlfriend is pansexual...so's mine coincidentally ;)

Yes but she isn't gender neutral. Hehehe so apparently you do like sex with a pan!

MonoVCPHG 08-23-2010 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Derbylicious (Post 41390)
Yes but she isn't gender neutral. Hehehe so apparently you do like sex with a pan!

Only the non-stick type ...sooo smooth :o

GroundedSpirit 08-23-2010 06:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Derbylicious (Post 41390)
Yes but she isn't gender neutral. Hehehe so apparently you do like sex with a pan!

HEY !!!!!!!!! Wait a minute !!!!!!!

Where'd my goats go ! :)
I want my goats back !

Derbylicious 08-23-2010 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit (Post 41394)
HEY !!!!!!!!! Wait a minute !!!!!!!

Where'd my goats go ! :)
I want my goats back !

Even slightly used? ;)


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