STI scare & recovery
In October of 2012 I encountered an STI scare with my 2 partners.
My primary, K, was with his other partner and was informed me that I had to get tested. I was devestated. I will not go into the sordid details of his misconduct but K and I have managed to work through the issues over the following months.
However my then secondary, J, who stuck by me and is now also a primary has trust issues resulting around K. It has opened up a world of issues in our relationship but I do not want to lose J since he has always been there for me. However he is trying to deal with his issues with K and it has caused issues in our own relationship now.
It has been 9 months and I am seeing the clearing in the woods as it were and J has once again become "ok" enough with K. However I do feel guilty. K has become more attentive and is trying to pull me away from J.
I love both of them but it seems that once I make things right with J things with K get hectic and vice versa.
Im not sure if I;m the only one who has ever encountered this issue but I am looking for feedback.
Any advice and everything is welcomed.
If my husband put myself and Murf at risk doing something stupid. He would no longer be my partner. Plain and simple. I don't care if I love him or the fact we've been together over 12 years. Risking my health and the health of someone who has been a wonderful addition to my life is down right disrespectful.
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