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kittenkittykat 06-21-2013 07:49 PM

Extremely hurt feelings
 
Ok so I thought things were getting better but obviously not.
Their child started kicking me so I held her in a way that she couldn't hurt me. He then proceeds to start hollering at me about getting dishes done and laundry and taking a batj so I don't even have a clue wtf I am being yelled at about I ask and get more no answers butyelled at and I am standing here crying doing dishes because I dont know what to do.
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westVan 06-21-2013 08:00 PM

??
 
I have to ask...
What part of get out this relationship arent you getting??
Re-read your other posts and take the advise you have been asking for.
Get the hell out of that house for your own safey and sanity.
go to a shelter call 911 and the cops will take you there. just get out now.

Dagferi 06-21-2013 08:04 PM

Stop posting threads whining about your life and get the heck out of there. Sleeping in your car or a flea bag hotel is better than this

BoringGuy 06-21-2013 08:14 PM

This is a forum about nonmonogamous relationships, not a battered women's shelter, not group therapy, not child protective services.

WHY ARE YOU HERE, WHO DO YOU THINK WE ARE, AND WHAT DO YOU EXPECT US TO DO?

Shit or get off the pot.

kittenkittykat 06-21-2013 08:15 PM

Okay well if I had a car yes but I don't and we live 50 miles from town so I don't know how to leave is all.
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BoringGuy 06-21-2013 08:16 PM

Hitchhike.

LovingRadiance 06-21-2013 08:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittenkittykat (Post 211128)
Okay well if I had a car yes but I don't and we live 50 miles from town so I don't know how to leave is all.
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This is a COMPLETELY serious response:

1. Pick up the phone
2. dial the closest police department (if you can't find the number, dial 911)
3. explain that you are in an abusive household, have no vehicle and are concerned for your safety and well being
4. request an officer come to pick you up and deliver you to the nearest women's shelter or other equally appropriate location.

kittenkittykat 06-21-2013 08:22 PM

Are all poly cpls like this? Do they treat the third like she can't do anything right?
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BoringGuy 06-21-2013 08:23 PM

Mine was a completely serious response too. It's not like the OP is going to do any of it. She's just going to keep starting new threads whining about stuff.

BoringGuy 06-21-2013 08:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittenkittykat (Post 211133)
Are all poly cpls like this? Do they treat the third like she can't do anything right?
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Yes.


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