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Sapphire 12-26-2010 03:57 PM

New to Polyamory.
Hello everyone.

I was introduced to this board recently and have had a good read through most of it and am amazed to find that my situation is not actually as rare as I thought it was.

I am married, and my husband has a girlfriend.

Due to my health, I am unable to live up to most of my 'wifely duties' and this has led to the inclusion of another member to our 'family'.

I do love my husband, and I love his girlfriend too. I know he loves me, and I know that she cares about me a great deal.

Its all very new to all of us and we are still figuring things out, but thanks to this board, I do not feel as if we are alone in this situation.

I look forward to getting to know you all a bit better, and hope that some of you may be of some support to myself, my husband and the girlfriend.

Best Wishes,


Fidelia 12-26-2010 04:02 PM

Hello, Sapphire. Welcome. :)

BrigidsDaughter 12-26-2010 05:42 PM

Welcome Sapphire. :-)

AutumnalTone 12-26-2010 07:04 PM

Welcome aboard.

vodkafan 12-27-2010 11:42 AM

Hi Sapphire, welcome and respect.

Sapphire 12-28-2010 12:26 PM

Thanks guys :):) Im really liking this forum :)

Julie77 12-28-2010 04:09 PM

It's nice you found this helpful site. :)

Mohegan 12-29-2010 10:56 PM

Hi! If you haven't gathered from some of my other posts yet, our journey to poly stemmed from my medical issues getting in the way of me being a "wife" to my husband. We were discussing finding a g/f for us both, when I found out Karma had been cheating the whole the time. We've come a long way in the last few months. Glad you didn't have to go that route. But wanted to let you know, I understand what it's like.

Sapphire 01-01-2011 03:34 PM

Thanks Mohegan - I have actually read some of yours and Karmas posts :) Yeh, Im glad I didnt have to go down that route too....

Will start a 'blog' thing and try to put down my thoughts and feelings there and whats doing :)

Bear 01-03-2011 07:18 PM

welcome. glad you are finding the information here useful. if you need info that u cant find ask. we dont bite unless asked ;op

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