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OneUncagedBird 12-12-2010 12:12 AM

What would you do...
I am curious if anyone has ever had the issue, and what they have done about it, of having 2 people who are interested in being in a relationship with them and they are only attracted or interested in one? This must have come up sometime.....:cool:

Athena 12-12-2010 12:28 AM

Do the two people come as a package? I am assuming yes, or I wouldn't see the issue...

Somegeezer 12-12-2010 02:52 AM

I'm guessing the same as the above. I've never been in that situation, but if I was, I'd make it clear I was only interested in one of them and let them both decide if that was ok. If not, I would move on and find others.

Fidelia 12-12-2010 06:06 AM

Be honest.
Be respectful.
Be real.

Jodi 12-12-2010 03:31 PM

sounds like you are the person in the middle. but, you're not responsible if one of them doesn't want to be intmate with the other. i'm not 100% sure i'm reading the situation correctly. but, yes, just be honest with your own feelings and encourage them to do the same. time will tell with this. also, they may try something, and find they like it or don't. things change.

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