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Jodi 11-16-2010 12:07 AM

i met someone who is good looking & is turned on by his girlfriend having up to two lovers that she sees.

he doesn't have a girlfriend, but seems interested in getting to know me better. we've been texting, and i must say, he turns me on, words & looks. this is rare for me, since i don't find myself attracted to many people physically.

things are falling into place..he said that he wants his girl to have a younger lover...and i also have a date w/ a guy 12 years younger than me who is really cute.

now, im hoping too that if i keep moving forward in a positve direction, it may lead to an encounter or friendship for my boyfriend's wife.

thanks for listening.

polytriad 11-16-2010 12:17 AM

I dont follow?

Jodi 11-16-2010 12:31 AM

the guy is looking for a girlfriend. it turns him on for his girlfriend (he's divorced & isn't seeing anyone) to have other lovers. i have a date with him.

i also have a date with a different man, who is younger. guy #1 wd like a relatioship where his girlfriend has another lover or two, preferably one younger.

so, i may be too optimistic here, but if both dates can turn into friendship and more...then yay.

also, if my couple (my bf & his wife) can agree on if she will be "allowed" to have a sexual encounter or ongoing relationship w/ another male, then mb one of these two guys can lead to something for her.

sorry, confusing first time.

polytriad 11-16-2010 12:35 AM

Ok now I follow....This sounds like someone laid down the perfect chess set up for you to make your move...you just have to wait to see how it develops...sounds very promising!!! Yay

Jodi 11-16-2010 12:37 AM

tnx polytri. ya never know unless u try, hee hee.

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