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MysticBeth 06-25-2009 11:37 AM

Beth saying hello
I don't know where to start, I'm not in a poly relationship and have never been. I have always been curious about poly relationships, I'm in a couple of groups but of course I never post anything. I'm too scared to, even thought I have this tugging at my heart to jump in and talk, I don't. I'm hoping that joining this forum I will meet some people who will talk to me about poly and why I have this undying need to connect with others into this lifestyle. Believe it or not I live with two men but in no way, shape or form is it poly and I don't want it to be with them. So if anyone is interested in a real newbie, I'm here.


Quath 06-25-2009 01:21 PM

Congrats for de-lurking. :) Hopefully you will join in on some of the conversations and let us know more what you are thinking.

Are you into paganism? I have noticed that a large number of polyamory people are also pagan.

MysticBeth 06-25-2009 01:40 PM

Quath, Thanks for the reply. No, I'm not into Paganism, I know nothing about it. Are you into it?

MonoVCPHG 06-25-2009 01:42 PM

Welcme and never worry about opening up or asking the "hard questions" here. This is a safe place for learning, growth and support:)

Take care

MysticBeth 06-25-2009 02:17 PM

Thank you MonoVCPHG,

Now, where do I begin? LOL


MonoVCPHG 06-25-2009 02:28 PM

I would say do some browsing, find a thread or person you can relate to and start talking/asking! Or just put a question out there if you don't see something related. Don't be afraid to start a new thread.
Good luck!

MysticBeth 06-25-2009 02:46 PM

Can I ask this Mono, how did you get involved? Were you raised in a poly family or was it something you just knew you were into? My family is Catholic and growing up I knew of no one into this lifestyle. I guess that's the main reason I'm confused. I'm also into DD and HOH relationships another thing my family is totally against and a main reason why I'm an outcast now but, that's another story. I did start talking to another couple from a different group but, it lead nowhere thanks to my own doing.


MonoVCPHG 06-25-2009 02:50 PM

I was raised Roman Catholic as well..10 years of religious study and all. My story is in the New To Polyamory forum... here's the link http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=176

Feel free to ask anything...:)

MysticBeth 06-25-2009 03:07 PM

I read your story, very interesting and you're a lucky man.

Thank you for being so nice to me.


MonoVCPHG 06-25-2009 03:18 PM


Originally Posted by MysticBeth (Post 2193)
I read your story, very interesting and you're a lucky man.

Thank you for being so nice to me.


I am extremely lucky..beyond words. Being nice is just in my nature..kinda like being monogamous:)

I'm pretty vanilla in a lot of ways LOL hence my MonoVanillaCrackerPolyHagGuru nick name...if you don't mind me asking, what does DD and HOH stand for?

Take care

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