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marksbabygirl 07-16-2010 01:05 AM

This sucks.
 
Someone I'm NOT seeing, but am interested in has become fluid bonded with someone else - which means that she's limiting contact between myself and hubby - which had been discussed however a series of unfortunate events kept stepping in the way...

So why do I feel sad?

Ok, I know the answer to that - because it means for her - that contact will have to be limited to non fluid contacts and THAT sucks for me.

I like her. A lot. And now the scope of where we can go has just been reduced - without me even getting a chance to go further.

*sigh*:(

MonoVCPHG 07-16-2010 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by marksbabygirl (Post 36126)

*sigh*:(

Being fluid bonded is extremely important to me. Not just because I like fluids but because of the exchange I feel emotionally. I can't imagine going back to non-fluid bonded sex. I feel for you in this :(

marksbabygirl 07-16-2010 01:30 AM

The intent is still for there to be play, of a non sexual nature, but she is wary of kissing even *sigh*

:(

Ariakas 07-16-2010 01:48 AM

That sucks mbg. Limited play is sometimes a requirement though. :)

Serious bummer

MonoVCPHG 07-16-2010 02:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by marksbabygirl (Post 36138)
The intent is still for there to be play, of a non sexual nature, but she is wary of kissing even *sigh*

:(

So, is she worried she'll put you at risk....or that you will put her at risk?

I can't imagine not kissing...I couldn't be bothered to do anything else if that isn't involved...there'd be no connection for me. :(

marksbabygirl 07-16-2010 04:11 AM

She mentioned something about kissing today... so maybe?

I dunno - going to take it slow and have lots of conversations :P


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