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PolygamousWU 09-27-2012 04:07 AM

New here
 
I found this site while looking for actual polygamist sites rather than polyamory sites, as I am in a polygamist marriage (husband & 3 wives). Maybe my search parameters were off but I believe everything happens for a reason, thus, me finding this community. I do not believe in polyamory (maybe I have the wrong defiinition), so maybe this site will educate me on polyamory vs. polygamy. Though if it is not in line with our beliefs, I probably won't post much, if at all.

I am pretty much a live and let live, to each his/her own, kind of person. I do have a strong belief in polygamy/polygany and polyamory is a whole different creature.

We are not religious or religion based polygamists. We all believe our Husband to be the Highest Power and submit to him, all 3 of us. We would have it no other way. Our children, likewise, are subserveant to us and our Husband. Thus, we have a fabulous bunch of children, well behaved and respectful as they should be.

I could go on and on here but it is late and I must be up early. I will make a profile and add more there.

May our paths crossing enrich us all.

BoringGuy 09-27-2012 04:17 AM

Are any of the wives bisexual? If so, are any of the wives involved with each other? How many children are there between all the wives? Was it your husband's idea for you to join this forum, or was it your idea?

PolygamousWU 09-27-2012 08:57 AM

I find your questions quite disturbing and an invasion of privacy, especially from a total stranger, one who has not taken the time to introduce himself or taken the time to get to know me. Shame on you!

Emm 09-27-2012 09:07 AM

Perhaps then you shouldn't have posted on a public messageboard.

PolygamousWU 09-27-2012 09:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Emm (Post 157172)
Perhaps then you shouldn't have posted on a public messageboard.

Posting on a public message board does not mean I have to share anything with anyone....period.

Emm 09-27-2012 09:37 AM

It does, however, imply that you wish to interact with people. If this is not the case you could always start a blog somewhere.

PolygamousWU 09-27-2012 09:39 AM

Charming little place with charming little people!
 
What is up with this place? A person posts in the intro section and the first 2 replies are not "Hi, glad to meet you" or "Welcome" but are actually quite offensive and defensive in tone. Maybe this is all it will take for me to learn what I need to know about polyamory...though I will not judge the lot by a few bad apples.

I'll give this place a shot. Not my typical experience with a message board or intro forum, but hey, if you can't handle me, don't bother to reply to my posts. I'm sure you have nothing of substance to offer to me anyway.

Papillon 09-27-2012 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PolygamousWU (Post 157174)
Posting on a public message board does not mean I have to share anything with anyone....period.

Of course you don't - none of us do - but what will happen on this forum is that people will ask you probing questions in order to get a better understanding of your situation. Everyone tends to get a lot of questions when they first show up here!

Emm 09-27-2012 09:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PolygamousWU (Post 157177)
A person posts in the intro section and the first 2 replies are not "Hi, glad to meet you" or "Welcome" but are actually quite offensive and defensive in tone.

Perhaps you'd be so good as to quote the offensive parts and show how they are incompatible with the site's user guidelines.

PolygamousWU 09-27-2012 09:58 AM

Perhaps I will take a moment and block offensive users...meaning those of you who seem to be looking to start a fight rather than welcome a new member. As for the guidelines, they are broad enough to allow for *personally* offensive matter to be posted without regard to the good or bad of the board.

Emm, you can try to chase me off but I'm here for my own personal journey, not to satisfy anyone's inquisitions or to battle over user guidelines. I did not say that user guidelines were not being followed....so do not put words in my mouth. Let us not split hairs. Maybe we can agree to dislike one another already and get on with our own lives. I have much better things to do with my time than play games here with you.


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