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bingshari 08-05-2012 04:40 PM

Upstate/Central NY female looking for friends and possible more
Hi! So after exploring this site I realize there is a dating & friendship section! I am a lesbian/bisexual female who is part of a lopsided triad, and looking for more to meet my needs. Need to start as friends and see what happens :) I am a professional and a student, and my hobbies include: Science Fiction, Fantasy, Reading, Walks, exploring new places and things. I really enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. So if anyone is interested just send me a shout out!


Adam 08-05-2012 06:20 PM

Hey Shari, is there anything specific you're looking for?

bingshari 08-05-2012 06:29 PM

Hi Adam. I am looking for anyone who is interested in an intimate friendship that has the potential for becoming a relationship. To be clear, I want to make friends with potential for a sexual relationship. I would prefer a female or couple, but am not opposed to a male. The chemistry has to be right. I want to expand my existing poly relationships beyond what I have now. I do not want a swing style type of thing. I want a real friendship/relationship. I would like to possibility of real love to develop. I do think this will be easier with a single person than a couple, but I refuse to close myself off to anything as the universe is full of potential.

Does that help clarify?


Adam 08-05-2012 08:11 PM

Yes, that clarifies :)

I was mostly just curious, and it might help filter in/out potentials...

bingshari 08-05-2012 08:42 PM

Thanks Adam. I definitely want to avoid confusing anyone or misleading anyone. I appreciate the questions :)

bingshari 08-06-2012 09:21 PM

I also want to make clear that I am looking for friends first....more may be possible later. So anyone who wants to say hi...feel free!

newbie1 08-24-2012 03:50 PM

Hi there
Hi there - saw your post. we are new to the poly-scene and are looking to find like minded folks - I am a 30 something bi female and my husband is well my husband :0 Perhaps we could be chat buddies?

CielDuMatin 08-25-2012 02:03 PM

There are a lot of folks in the Southern Tier who are looking to do social gatherings, which I think is the best way to meet other poly folks in a non-pressured environment, but there never seem to be enough around at the same time. Folks come in, post something, then don't stick around long enough for a large enough group to form - by the time the next person comes along, they have moved on...

Summer 08-26-2012 12:14 AM

Hi Shari,
I read your post. My husband and I have been happily married for several years and are committed to each. We would like to explore a friendship with a female and possible romantic relationship. :) We are very "green" in this life style and would like to learn more about the poly life style. If you are interested in more communication, we are open to the idea.

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