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Lu2k155 07-19-2012 08:31 PM

Luv2k155 Intro
Hi everyone,

We are a couple here......I am going to introduce to you myself and my partner. We have been in a relationship for about 10 years. We are not skinny, We are thick, as in moderately proportional. So if you are looking for Ken and Barbie, you are on the wrong profile. We are drug AND disease free, and have been that way all my life and will remain that way. She is athletic, exciting personality, very social and friendly, and loves to start fires.

Him: Luv2k155
He is a retired network administrator. He was born in Germany, has a big German body frame. (Love it). He is Caucasian. We live in Columbus Georgia.
He is 5feet 9in, Brown Hair......little extra padding and terribly squeezable. He is witty, funny and very caring. He is a sensual and erotic, straight Caucasian male age 52.

He loves to be surprising in all ways sexual. He's the type of lover who loves to play and has the toys to do it. He likes sensual kisses, 69, Massages (Erotic and Not), Playing adult games and watching a woman scream in orgasm on the Sybian, his tongue or whatever else it takes to make her do so.

Her: Desert Rose
She is a mixed female of Asian and (the politically correct term)African American, (which she is not from Africa). She is of a caramel/pecan tan of black decent and Asian. She was born in Amityville, New York. Move to the south with family...... She is five feet 8 inches, she has extra padding with and athletic build. She is a fun, loving, adventurous type person. Her demeanor is is soft and sweet, laid back and chill. She is a musician and loves all types of music. Her favorite music is Jazz, Smooth Jazz.She has always been active in exercising and sports. Very beautiful caramel honey skin. She is a network admin, and game designer.

About Us:
We love camping, cooking, gaming, fine dining, socializing with friends. We enjoy going to concerts and spending time with family and friends.
We both are very sociable people.
Here are a few more things that we enjoy:
Adult Games
Spending time with friends.
Playing with our toys, what or who ever they may be. Lol So, you must have a sense of humor.

Education: Him/Her
He has a Microsoft Certified Engineering Degree, she has an Associates in Networking Specialist and Game Design, as well as a Bachelors in Game Design.

She is seeking to buy a motorcycle in the near future......to just ride with friends.

CielDuMatin 07-19-2012 09:57 PM

Welcome to the forum!

Just curious about a word you used - when you say "discretion" with regards to children, how do you mean this?

Just as an FYI, we do have a "Dating and Friendships" area - some people that are looking only check there, so you might want to make another post there.

CielDuMatin 07-19-2012 10:24 PM


Originally Posted by Lu2k155 (Post 144435)
What I mean, there is a time a place for everything, in one short statement, did this bother you?

Oh no, it didn't bother me at all - I have just seen that word used in many different ways, most of them absolutely fine, some quite worrying.

Discretion can often be code for "I'm cheating on my wife/husband, so this has to be our little secret" (obviously not what you are saying here, unless I got it REALLY wrong ;) )

It can mean "the children can absolutely not know of our other partner's existence." Which is fine for some, problematic for others.

Or it can mean "the children know what is going on, but we have to be careful with what they say at school." (which I know has been a real concern for some parents and children as far as teasing goes) - most poly folks don't have an issue with this.

...and all manner of other variations on these. So I was just wondering what you meant by it, rather than assuming. :)

Does that make sense?

Lu2k155 07-19-2012 10:30 PM

Yes, that makes sense.
My younger children..............are not aware of my current relationship. It has been quite for a time. My older children however know what is going on as well as friends and family.
When the time comes for my younger children to know, if it affects them directly, that is when they will know.
I dont know how other people handle this, but this is how I would handle it, and this is a normal practice for me.
Thank you for your explanation.....;)

This is Desert Rose of the Luv2k155 couple.

kdt26417 07-20-2012 08:51 PM

Hello Luv2k155,

Welcome to our forum, to both of you.

You seem to be a positive and lovely couple, I am sure there are many people out who would enjoy spending time with you.

As for me, I'd be a little out of your local area, but I can still enjoy making your acquaintanceship online!

I'm glad you could join us.

Kevin T.

Lu2k155 07-21-2012 01:12 AM

Thank you, we hope to find good information here as well as meet good people. We are not new to the swinging scene, however, we are new to the poly life style. We both have a very good understanding of what we want, we both are solid in our relationship, the next step is an enhancement, hopefully. Have seen some horror stories. Anyway, thanks for the welcome.

Desert Rose

nycindie 07-21-2012 12:09 PM

Welcome. I think you may want a moderator to move this to the "Dating and Friendships" forum.

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