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Goldhart23 05-08-2009 03:08 PM

Curious in NH
 
Hey, everyone,

I've recently begun talking about Polyamory with my boyfriend of 6 years. I've only just learned about it recently on the Steve Pavlina blog. My boyfriend says he feels a little uncomfortable about it, but that he doesn't want to lose my heart and wants me to be happy. He had actually gone outside our relationship about 3 years ago, and it's been a struggle for me to forgive him for breaking the monogamy. But now I see the value in having multiple, loving relationships as opposed to confining, controlling, jealous exclusive ones. And I find that when other people enter the equation, our physical relationship takes off. I'm happy to have found this forum as we try to make a decision on venturing into this new life.

*Barb*
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nikkiana 05-08-2009 03:32 PM

Welcome Barb, good to see another Granite Stater here! :)

Goldhart23 05-08-2009 04:06 PM

Thanks!
 
Thank you, Nikkiana! I'm in the seacoast area...where are you, if you don't mind me asking?

nikkiana 05-08-2009 04:22 PM

I'm over in the Manchester area.

Goldhart23 05-08-2009 05:11 PM

Ohhhhh! You mean, "Manch-Vegas!!" LOL! Great city!:)

WaywardDruid 05-08-2009 08:01 PM

Hello and Welcome
 
Hello & Welcome.

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Just Me,
Tim

AutumnalTone 05-09-2009 02:35 AM

Welcome to the boards, Barb.

I'll suggest picking up Tristan Taormino's bokk, Opening Up. I think you'll find a lot of information in there that will help you and your boyfriend to adjust.

Larry

AutumnalTone 05-09-2009 02:36 AM

I love the graphics you're using!

Goldhart23 05-09-2009 04:49 AM

Thanks, Larry and Tim! I will check out the book you mentioned.
Barb

nikkiana 05-09-2009 12:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SeventhCrow (Post 843)
Welcome to the boards, Barb.

I'll suggest picking up Tristan Taormino's bokk, Opening Up. I think you'll find a lot of information in there that will help you and your boyfriend to adjust.

Larry

I'll second this suggestion, I just finished with the book... It was very informative!


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