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OpenandCountry 01-02-2012 04:50 PM

They finally "made up" :)
I feel like I've written about my situation a lot on here, but I'll review briefly what happened over Thanksgiving...

My husband was going through some family issues and as a result was feeling much more anxious/insecure than usual. Before this incident, the three of us were able to spend time together, and there weren't any restrictions placed on my relationship with my boyfriend. I had made mistakes with my relationship, but I thought we had moved past them, and had settled into a pattern. My husband decided to impose restrictions (which were reasonable, yet random), and both he and my boyfriend had an emotional reaction to the entire situation. I felt very caught in the middle. :( After the fact, we all three realized that we had messed up, but we haven't all been in the same room since.


Last night my boyfriend was acting very strange; he was really nervous, we were going places that we don't normally go....i was starting to get freaked out. I guess he was just psyching himself up, because we pulled into my driveway and he said "I'm going up". He and my husband then had a long chat about the whole ordeal, and they "made up". :D They've always gotten along really well; they had a friendship/connection that is separate from me, so it was really cool to watch them work things out.

I'm so glad that order has been re-established. My husband has let go of the restrictions and told me to exercise my best judgment, and my boyfriend has told me that if my husband should need me for a couple of days, weeks, or even months that we should take that time as a couple. Afterward, I thought my boyfriend and I were going to head to his place, but he said "no, I think you guys need some time after all that". I still talked with him in his car for two hours, so I guess that point was moot. :P

How do I feel about all this? Ecstatic! I feel like if I could write a story about my two amazing relationships no one would believe me. I'm just so incredibly fortunate.

redpepper 01-03-2012 06:27 AM

yay, that's great! :)

km34 01-03-2012 08:30 PM

Awww, congratulations!

yogos 01-06-2012 09:55 AM

That's great! :)

OpenandCountry 01-06-2012 03:48 PM

Thanks, everyone. I'm just glad we can all be together without tension now. :)

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