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morrisslig 11-25-2011 06:47 PM

New in Canada

I have been a lurker on and off for a while now figuring out where to start and here seems as good a place as any!

I am a 28 yr old female married to the most amazing women. We are looking into opening up our marriage. My first foray into polyamory was my very first relationship and I was a secondary partner. In realizing that this relationship is how I best thrived my wife and I have started on this path ourselves.

We are both heading into this with our eyes wide open. We communicate till we can't talk no more! I think we are both nervous as she is not interested in being with someone else but is happy for me to be. Nervous isn't the right word but I am not so good with writing my thoughts down eloquently so it will have to do.

We are looking for a man who will understand that it will be for the long term and we may start a family in the next few years on top of that.

Looking forward to being part of this community. Not looking forward to the winter though.

Spiral 11-29-2011 04:59 PM

Greetings fellow Canadian(s) and welcome to the world of Poly. It is a lifestyle not without its challenges, but in my opinion, the benefits greatly outweigh them. We are not looking forward to the winter either. :(

ChloeJane 11-29-2011 05:47 PM

Welcome to the forum! So cool to see lots of us Canadians on here; forward thinking country in a lot of ways, eh!

It sounds like you're in a great starting place; there's a ton of resources and great people on here (as you probably already know!) to draw upon. Be confident in yourself; it sounds like you've got your priorities straight, and have some awesome communication going on!

morrisslig 11-29-2011 06:56 PM

Thanks for the warm welcome!

It's raining today and no sun in sight. Hate days like this. Rain never comes in the summer when you don't fancy watering the garden!

I have to get acquainted with all the terms that are used on here. My mind was boggled last time I tried to read them. I am assuming we would be a vee if we had another partner. Names don't mean too much to me except my own and then it better be important if you are calling me ;).

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