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Magdlyn 12-16-2009 01:39 PM

101 reasons why men cheat
 
http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/articl...609.DTL&nl=fix

Good thing we dont need to! (cheat)

B/c many of those reasons are quite true.

#52 Didn't Jesus fool around? Is that written somewhere? The lost Gospel of Hey Baby, Nice Rack? All those prostitutes and magic and hocus-pocus? I bet he did. Dude could walk on water. Chicks love that.

#63 Actually, the headline of this column is sort of misleading. Men don't cheat. Some men do, and some women do, for all sort of reasons, some of which are actually sort of valid, if you will, and to insist on some ironclad universal rule of absolute unquestioning fidelity is to presume a ridiculous, impossible level of perfection in the human animal and to dismiss the million messy, complicated variants a human love relationship can take.

#64 Oh, just shut the hell up, #63. No one wants to hear your tepid, permissive psychoanalysis. Cheating is wrong. Always and forever. Now let's talk more about drunk jerks and skanks!

berserker239 12-16-2009 08:06 PM

Always controversy over cheating >_>

MoonFairy 12-18-2009 04:31 PM

Hehehe...I was quite entertained reading this. :)

Magdlyn 12-18-2009 08:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MoonFairy (Post 16287)
Hehehe...I was quite entertained reading this. :)

I'm glad. Mark Morford is da bomb. I subscribe to him, those articles come out abt twice a week.

rolypoly 12-18-2009 09:03 PM

Hilarious! Just ask the penis. :)

I have a beef with #6. "The male libido, generally speaking, far outpaces the female libido and is never really satisfied for more than a day or two, tops."

So, so not true!! I have nevereverever had a partner who out-libidoed me. Ever. Maybe in the first few months, sure, but their libidos always die when mine's gearing up. *sigh*

Magdlyn 12-18-2009 09:18 PM

"Generally speaking" roly.

My libido went thru the roof in my 40s. Im like a teenage boy. I outpace my 21 yr old male lover (but not by much, he's quite the stud).

;)

AutumnalTone 12-18-2009 11:47 PM

Whereas none of the women with whom I've been involved have ever matched my libido. My wife knows I'm ready if I'm not ill to the point of wanting to die. I don't even have to be awake, as I have a history of SBS (Sexual Behavior during Sleep).

Sweetheart 12-19-2009 10:50 AM

Hee hee! SBS! Yeah, that's me. :rolleyes:

I find this idea about women with high sex drives to be extremely interesting. Women I have dated who say that they've never found a man who could keep up... have never been able to keep up with me. I'm thinking, "What, were you dating dead men?"

How many times a day are we talking about here? If it's less than 3 times a day, you're in the "can't keep up" category. If it's 3-5 times a day, it's adequate. I prefer the 5-20 times a day variety! :eek: :D

... or just continuously for days... ;)

Sweetheart 12-19-2009 10:52 AM

I think we poly people just have high sex drives.

DarkHorseJ27 02-02-2010 10:02 AM

When a man cheats, its his fault. When his woman cheats, its still his fault.


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