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amchr 10-19-2011 06:07 AM

loving each other together
Hi everyone, I am new to this site as of a few hrs ago, and after reading this thread was wondering if poly is the right term for what we (my boyfriend and I) are looking for. As in we are looking for another bi female to love together in a closed relationship. Everyone loving each other together as not only lovers but also as soulmates.

Magdlyn 10-19-2011 10:54 AM

You are a primary couple seeking a unicorn. A big percentage of couples first opening their relationships look for a single hot bi babe to "share" or "add." Do a tag search on "unicorn."

AnnabelMore 10-20-2011 05:30 AM

Hey amchr,

I posted this a while back on a different blog, my thoughts on why het couples seeking a single, bi woman (aka a "unicorn") often get a bad rap. Perhaps it will be useful to you in your journey:

See also this thread, "advice for couple seeking third": http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3693

amchr 10-23-2011 05:05 PM

I Understand Truely I Do
I have been the unicorn in two other relationships. So, yes, I truely understand all that you are trying to tell me. And no we would not be so closed minded that we would not think of the other person's feelings. The wheels of love turn slowly in relationships like these and neither my partner or I would risk rushing into anything and not giving ALL parties involved time and space to adjust to the situation.

AnnabelMore 10-23-2011 05:37 PM

That experience will surely help, then. Best of luck!

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