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HappiestManAlive 11-02-2009 06:55 AM

The weirdest poly emotional oddity ever.
So I don't feel like explaining it right now, but things with Anne just ended HORRIBLY in a very ugly breakup.

And now I am experiencing very, very weird emotional dichotomy.

I'm going through all the same post-bad-breakup feelings I know so well from my past. But Violet is still here and I love her and I still have this positive relationship in my life. While going through a horrible nasty breakup. So I really want to hate all women and all their manipulative shit for a while, but I can't. Because I love Violet. And that's good - but it's denying me my women hating moment, lol.

It kinda makes my brain hurt. But in a good way. Kinda.

redpepper 11-02-2009 07:32 AM

oh dear, I'm so sorry...

Sunshinegrl 11-02-2009 07:45 AM

Im so sorry to hear this too. Hope your both ok. (((hugs)))

aussielover 11-02-2009 07:47 AM

:( Sorry it ended so badly.

greenearthal 11-02-2009 03:16 PM

I have felt that very same feeling in the past. I found it to be so much nicer than the gut-wrenching break up where you're left all alone with your grief.

Hoping for the best for the three of you wherever it goes from here.

ladyjools 11-02-2009 03:21 PM

(((((((hugs))))))))) so sorry u had a breakup
i can relate when i broke up with M i wanted to hate all men, and i couldn't because i still had montianboy and he was so lovley and supportive

i hope you can talk about it soon it might help
Love Jools

Fidelia 11-05-2009 07:55 PM

So sorry HMA. :(


Io55 11-06-2009 12:45 AM

im sorry HMA. thinking of you all. hugs

XYZ123 11-06-2009 03:30 PM

So sorry hun. When P trampled my heart it was weird to still have this amazing relationship with N. Of course, I got to woman hate (despite being a woman myself) because N is a man. I hope you and Violet can carry eachother through. *hug*

HappiestManAlive 11-07-2009 05:26 AM

Sorry for teh lack of updates on this thread; things got going in our thread under life stories. In any event, I'm MUCH better, Violet is well, we're better than we've been in quite some time - even before Anne, actually.

I've gone from being hurt and angry and all that crap to really just feeling sorry for her. I'm hurt, yes - but I'm far more concerned about what Anne's putting herself through , with or without us. *sigh*

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