Crestfallen
New member
I'm new on here and to poly I'm 37. I met a girl shes25 we started talking and now we are in a relationship I'm her second and she is her other bf second. I'm still adjusting and dealing with some issues. I've tries talking to her about how I feel when we are talking on the phone and as soon as he calls she let's me go but if they are talking I have to wait and usually get told she will call me tomorrow. She tells me I make her happier than anyone ever has and she is tired of his drama. But today was supposed to be our day and she got drunk and had a hangover today so there went that. So I asked for Thursday but that's his day even though he got sat and sun with her and got wasted instead of being at the hospital with his son who almost drown because his wife wouldn't let him stay. Anyway sorry about that tirade. She keeps throwing how he's her primary up. I told her I love her more than anything but I don't want to always be thrown on the back burner when ever he feels sorry for himself. I'm sorry if its hard to understand. Thanks for any advise in advance.