Greetings Jenikyula,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Haha, yes, all your confusion will be cleared up here.
Seriously though, you can find a wide range of poly perspective here, which may help things seem less overwhelming. The
Life stories and blogs board is a good place to visit.
Also if you don't mind a bit of book reading, I highly recommend "
Opening Up: a guide to creating and sustaining open relationships," by Tristan Taormino.
I hope you and your partner can work things out, at least well enough that you'll still be friends.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!