Well that was fun. My girlfriend (secondary) of the past 6 months recently started dating somebody who is not comfortable with the poly lifestyle and she has decided to discontinue seeing me in favor of a monogamous relationship with her new beau. Disappointing for me but I am very happy for her and carry with me fond memories.
In any case, for those who don't know me I am married to a very fine lady and our relationship is such that we are both poly with us each having one secondary partner, and we also date couples together. I am finding a lot of success finding people who want to date me but the moment they learn about my wife and our lifestyle they run. Obviously I won't force anyone to do something they don't want to but my last girlfriend only became okay with it when she understood it. And therein lies the trouble. We met on Tinder and fortunately for me she didn't read my profile through and I got the opportunity to talk to her and ease her onto the idea.
Barring another stroke of luck how do poly people approach finding a new person, especially as a secondary?
In any case, for those who don't know me I am married to a very fine lady and our relationship is such that we are both poly with us each having one secondary partner, and we also date couples together. I am finding a lot of success finding people who want to date me but the moment they learn about my wife and our lifestyle they run. Obviously I won't force anyone to do something they don't want to but my last girlfriend only became okay with it when she understood it. And therein lies the trouble. We met on Tinder and fortunately for me she didn't read my profile through and I got the opportunity to talk to her and ease her onto the idea.
Barring another stroke of luck how do poly people approach finding a new person, especially as a secondary?