beautifulansuz
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My partner and I have recently started...er..picking up people is the best way to put it I guess. Well, rather, we are attempting to pick up other people. Rather than casually wait for more partners to fall into our laps (mainly mine), we've finally discussed actively looking for more people to join us. As he has another partner already, this is primarily for me.
I'm curious: how do other people introduce the topic of an open poly relationship, when trying to find out if other persons find it acceptable/even know what the crap it is?! (tangent--I got hit on by this super hot interesting girl and when I brought it up she was like 'omg wtf is an open relationship? I'm open to a relationship with you...? *facepalm*)
Neither of us is completely out (thank you full time employment?) so short of advertising to all and sundry the specifics of our relationship--we just go with 'we're in an open relationship. wanna join/?'
It's not working so well....
I'm curious: how do other people introduce the topic of an open poly relationship, when trying to find out if other persons find it acceptable/even know what the crap it is?! (tangent--I got hit on by this super hot interesting girl and when I brought it up she was like 'omg wtf is an open relationship? I'm open to a relationship with you...? *facepalm*)
Neither of us is completely out (thank you full time employment?) so short of advertising to all and sundry the specifics of our relationship--we just go with 'we're in an open relationship. wanna join/?'
It's not working so well....