I found my way here from Polyamoryonline.org. I've never thought of myself as monogamously-oriented, but my first marriage was monogamous. My second marriage was monogamous until March of last year, when my husband suggested we try an open marriage arrangement, which initially was pretty much friends-with-benefits based. That changed when I met a guy... Long story short (because it is a long story), since September I've officially been in a polyamorous relationship, sort of a V, I guess. I live with the man I'm married to, and have a relationship with the other guy. Hubby refers to the other guy as his "bro-hub" or "step-husband."
The secondary relationship is a long-distance one; I haven't actually seen my other guy since July.
The secondary relationship is a long-distance one; I haven't actually seen my other guy since July.