A few years ago I found myself in a poly relationship with a man - his primary and I became friends. Stupidly, I eventually left the relationship for another but, I never stopped caring. Am entirely single again, live in a different part of the country, and the couple have decided that monogamy is what they want right now. I am primarily attracted to men but... Not sure what I want or need now but, somehow I doubt that it is monogamy. Am curious.