We have a great sex life and fantasize often about sharing another person during our intimate time, whispering details. We love to people watch together and enjoy beautiful women as well as any variety in life. We have let a few girls sleep in our bed in earlier (college) times but the situation wasn't right for anything but a ONS so we didn't take advantage. Who knows how to go about these things, really? Isn't it likely we will just start a friendship with someone who wants more?