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  • Hi, Letitbe. I am so sorry, I am just new enough to this kind of thing that I didn't realize to check for private messages. I've been with my partner, (who told me he was poly before we got together) for 5 1/2 years now. There were some tough times early on with our first experience, then a short space just us, then a new love (his) which again has had some truly difficult times.

    Jealousy is a bugger. It will come in and grab hold of your guts and knot them all up. I just had to realize it's just an emotion, and sit with it, look at it, learn how to counter it with affirmations and such. And over time, you start to realize, "Hey, he does still love me, we are still good! I can truly say that K sleeps with (let's call her D) as much as he does with me, and it's gotten to be truly okay with me.

    I'm glad to hear that he is patient and respectful, too. Keep talking, keep working on it, and you may find to your delight that there can be joy on the other side of it!
    S
    hey there...we are new to poly are and are from WI
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