thanks for sharing with me....i hope things are going well for you guys. i can kind of relate, but our situation is different. the only one so far who has displayed any jealousy is me. it's not an ongoing thing, but there have been moments where i have to adjust to learning to share the both of them. mostly i love seeing them together. it's been a great thing so far. i guess jealousy is pretty common in these situations. i think the times when i have started to feel it were when i fear that someone doesn't want to be with someone else more than the other someone else... wow. that was confusing! but when it happens, we talk about it, and i remember that they both love me, and i trust them. the jealousy doesn't last long, and isn't very strong. sorry this is so rambling! i'm tired, but wanted to respond. i hope your girlfriend's husband can get through those feelings and you guys can find your happy place! you sound like you really care for her. good luck! let me know how it's going.