View Full Version : Where are you from ?
IndianaFamily
10-19-2009, 12:41 AM
A good way for us all to get to know a bit about each other.
Share only the amount of informaiton you are comfortable with.
Where are you from?
What if anything are you looking for?
nudeinnola
10-26-2009, 04:34 AM
New Orleans, LA
Single Male. Looking for a MFM long term relationship.
MRC2009
10-26-2009, 01:08 PM
Central NY (I'm not comfortable giving my city).
I'd like to find a male friend and see where it goes from there.
WaywardDruid
10-28-2009, 03:54 PM
From Salinas California.
Just Us,
Tim & Trisha
HappiestManAlive
11-01-2009, 01:38 AM
Vegas, baby! If they don't reply, Violet (my SO) is here, as are all three of the "dragons".
BexyandBen
11-01-2009, 03:28 AM
Bex and I are in the St. Louis area, smack dab in the center of the US.
smittenkitten
11-04-2009, 05:50 AM
I live right near the KS-MO bordertown! AKA Kansas City! :) Looking for love in the form of deep, meaningful friendships!
rubyfish
11-05-2009, 03:55 AM
I'm just outside of Boston, MA.
nikkiana
11-05-2009, 03:58 AM
Brooklyn, NY here. :)
Sweetheart
11-07-2009, 06:47 PM
We are a couple in the Central Missouri area, and travel to St Louis and Kansas City. She has a long-distance girlfriend. We're looking for bi or straight women, and our ultimate goal is a long-term committed triad or V.
bookworm
11-11-2009, 01:13 PM
We are in Se Mo area, not looking for anything but friends at the moment, but you never know.
PittDruid
11-11-2009, 03:46 PM
I live in Pittsburgh,PA
I am looking to meet people of a like mind
AyeSignatia
11-13-2009, 02:31 AM
Married H&W from Georgia. Open to possibilities of another loving couple or special someone.
ourquad
11-13-2009, 03:52 AM
We live 2 hours apart. Half of us in Florida and half of us in Georgia.
We are beautiful BC, Canada!!!
JonnyAce
11-13-2009, 08:28 AM
JustChristine, and I live in NY, just over the border of northern NJ. not too far from NYC.
Magdlyn
11-13-2009, 02:33 PM
I live in a northeastern Massachusetts city. MY SO lives in an eastern MA city and i run back and forth between.
In general I am looking for love and sex in the poly community. I didnt come here looking for a relationship, but for support for living poly.
But... then again, if anyone here wants to hit on me, feel free! ;)
WaywardDruid
11-13-2009, 11:53 PM
I live in a northeastern Massachusetts city. MY SO lives in an eastern MA city and i run back and forth between.
In general I am looking for love and sex in the poly community. I didnt come here looking for a relationship, but for support for living poly.
But... then again, if anyone here wants to hit on me, feel free! ;)
I don't usually hit on people (be it male or female) but I couldn't help myself.
Consider yourself hit upon.
Here's a recent photo to turn you on.
http://lazarusl.com/ugly_man.jpg
Lets' get together and do the Ugly.
Just Me,
Tim
foxflame88
11-14-2009, 09:21 PM
I am in SE Georgia, and my primary is in NE Florida. (Commuting back and forth for now.) I am poly, and he is not.
rosevett
11-16-2009, 07:31 PM
Hmmm...we are located in the Finger Lake Region of New York.
I'm here to share the success of our poly family(FMFM).
This is in my backyard ~ http://a323.yahoofs.com/coreid/49b9460ai106az/2Phb0s0jdLWJ4adGpgjV3Q--/102/t192.jpg?ciAwvAMBPJUKq81v
hailieleann
11-21-2009, 05:16 AM
i'm from east texas.
i eventually want a fmf, but not anything serious for quite some time.
juliaandpatti
12-14-2009, 12:33 PM
Hello!! Patti and I are in the South Central PA area near Harrisburg. :O)
Julia
TheEvilThatMenDo
12-15-2009, 12:09 AM
Hello from the evil that is Stockton CA.
juliaandpatti
12-15-2009, 12:40 AM
Patti and Julia here--
Patti is from Hagerstown MD; has lived in Midwest in the past (miss KCMO badly!!)
Julia is from St Louis area growin' up a young'un; lived in Sterling CO, Denver CO and Helena MT along the way.
Right now--we're living in Central PA (Elizabethtown to be specific). Egads!
communeist
12-17-2009, 02:04 PM
I'm from Staten Island, NY. Yes, that's a part of New York City!;)
I'm looking for communication, connection, and kindred spirits. And in general, looking for intimate relationship.
CielDuMatin
12-29-2009, 05:10 PM
Upstate New York here.
Kind of polysaturated right now, from a resources (i.e. time) point of view, here to look for community of like-minded people who can respect different aspects of this thing we call polyamory.
communeist
12-29-2009, 05:23 PM
Upstate New York here.
Kind of polysaturated right now
Polysaturated! I like that.
I guess I'm polyunsaturated, since my two relationnships are tertiary at best, and thus I'm pretty much unpoly'd right now.
Tere82
01-29-2010, 03:40 AM
Im in Houston, and looking for something new. Hopeing to meet some like minded people in my area. I would love to have a mmf relationship.
polyethicallove
01-30-2010, 01:09 PM
We are in the Bloomington Indiana area. Our family consist of myself 37 y/o male, my wife of 13 years, our 32 year old male friend and three spectacular children. Both males are straight and our lady is very bi. We are interested in expanding our family by finding a female to be primary to our friend or something that could become a quad. We do not know where to even start to proceed to find someone like this since our family just sort of happened. We keep to ourselves and do not have a social circle to facilitate meeting people. We are all healthy and athletic. We enjoy spending our evenings together drinking, smoking, and laughing. We are open minded and socially liberal. We do have strong feelings about the value of mutual and communal love and value ethical behavior. We are NOT swingers. Both males work together as partners in a high end residential woodworking business. We work too much. The pitfall of self employment I guess. We would like a lady that could also be supportive of our female and children in our absence. We cherish the opportunity to grow this family.
ClaireNC
02-15-2010, 08:35 AM
I'm in North Carolina looking for the two men to complete me. :D
woortycat
03-02-2010, 03:34 AM
Hello,
I live in Fort Wayne, IN
my primary lives in Sterling Heights, MI
my secondary lives in Ann Arbor, MI
twoforfunstl
03-22-2010, 10:07 PM
Saint Louis, Missouri
Uluz46901
05-16-2010, 09:22 PM
We are in the Kokomo area. Seeking a man to become a regular partner for her to date, dine, travel, etc.....We are both staright.
phoenix762
05-27-2010, 01:34 AM
I live in Philly, PA.
Not looking for anything or anyone at the moment, just curious about the lifestyle in general, and I think it would be quite rude if I just lurked and not made myself visible in some way.
;0)
It's just me and my teen son here;)
temag
06-29-2010, 06:59 AM
South Louisiana here. Straight sbm looking for love.
clairegoad
06-29-2010, 02:05 PM
Northern Pinellas County, Florida
Palm Harbor/Ozona area.
foxflame88
06-29-2010, 07:08 PM
Northern Pinellas County, Florida
Palm Harbor/Ozona area.
I lived in Tarpon Springs for a while about 15 years ago. I still have family in Dunedin.
clairegoad
06-30-2010, 01:46 AM
I lived in Tarpon Springs for a while about 15 years ago. I still have family in Dunedin.
I LOVE Tarpon Springs... Great place with wonderful Greek food and sponges, wonderful boats.. Like a Greek village just north of my home. And Dunedin has the Scottish/Irish heritage.
My visits with family are too crazy for anything else.. but if you ever are in town, and want to get away, give me a shout.
River
06-30-2010, 06:33 PM
Santa Fe, New Mexico.
[Yes, that's in the USA!]
dancingalone
07-03-2010, 01:31 AM
I live in wyoming and as for what I'm looking for...I think I'm looking to start a committed triad. lol But new friends are good too so...
Bicple16667
07-04-2010, 01:03 PM
Hello,
We are a married poly swinger couple from the Bedford Pa area, very bi fem, orally bi male. We are looking for friends, playmates, and possible LTR. We are both artists & musicians, long haired old hippys, love country living, very open minded, like to party, and are 420 friendly. Give us a shout if you think you'd like to get to know us.
Thanks :-)
solarwindsfly
07-06-2010, 04:59 AM
I'm from Tucson, Arizona and am in a poly of three fmf I enjoy it although we have had some hard times lately. I am here for support and just to learn more :)
PixieStyx
07-11-2010, 07:46 PM
I'm from Salt Lake City, UT and my husband and I are looking for a long term girlfriend. :)
Jamie
nymphs
07-27-2010, 02:59 AM
We are from nw missouri up by the iowa line ;) looking for a female to be with us. My husband a over the road truck driver and he travels to texas all the time
stlcindy75
07-28-2010, 11:35 PM
I live in Seattle, WA. 35yo single female. Cute, friendly and looking for new friends!
janeb1958
08-09-2010, 09:39 AM
I'm from San Diego -- I'm a secondary/partner of a married man -- he's the first man I've ever totally loved -- looking forward to meeting my own primary to love, as well!!
razielthomas
08-09-2010, 11:46 AM
I'm from the Imperial Valley which is 2 hours from San Diego. My fiancee and myself are looking for a third to complete our triad. I'm 25 she's 29 and bisexual.
Tonberry
08-16-2010, 04:36 AM
I live in Alberta, Canada with my husband. My boyfriend lives in California.
KelticIrishDruid
08-16-2010, 02:26 PM
We are located on our farm in Southern New Hampshire.
We are seeking a lass to join us or the correct couple.....
kzchopper
10-11-2010, 01:53 PM
At the moment I'm the tail of an N I'd like to turn it into a W with a secondary LTR. With a woman or couple in northern Virginia. All interested may respond.
BiGirlSeekingPolyamory
10-17-2010, 02:52 PM
I'm from Iowa
Sojourner1983
10-26-2010, 07:04 PM
here in montgomery alabama. young married couple looking for either a couple near our age or a bi single lady. single mothers or pregnant are welcome. we have two children and a stable commited relationship.
greywarden
10-27-2010, 10:00 AM
Alaska!
There's My Wife and I. She's Bi, has a rocky relationship with her BF. I'm Straight, interested in a GF.
I'm in the military, so it was quite a difficult task to get him up here from NWFL and help him settle in. Now I've been chatting with another friend from NWFL, we'll see how that goes.
eklctc
10-30-2010, 12:59 PM
That's a loaded question for me. lol... I don't claim a 'from' since the first 12 years of my life are a blur and I'm an adopted child. However, I was born in Texas and raised between New York, Germany, and California until my mom decided to settle back in Texas. I attended high school in San Antonio, TX and, once I became an adult, started working my way out of Texas. Thereafter, I lived in New York, Florida, Georgia, and now in Colorado. My goal has always been to move back out of the United States but we never know where the Universe will take us, eh?
On this site, I seek connectivity with like-minded people. I seek to share ponderings and conversations with people who can actually say they have thought about the same things or experienced the same things. I seek a variety of viewpoints on this relationship style to enhance my openness and thought processes as I journey through my own. I seek to offer ideas to people searching for remedies and/or other considerations in their own circumstances. I seek growth and success in this area of my life.
eklctc
10-30-2010, 01:01 PM
Wow... Well, best of luck to you.
Athena
10-31-2010, 02:05 AM
Suburb of NYC in Westchester! My husband and I are both in a good place and ready to start dating a bit, but our tastes are different from each other. I basically would want to know that any of his GF's and I get along, and that I trust them not to do anything dangerous to his (and my) health. I think my husband feels pretty much the same about any potential dates I might have. I am open to dating people already in relationships (including if a couple are interested in dating) but it would definitely be a secondary relationship at this point. I will hopefully soon have a new job to focus on, including being a mom to a very cute six month old.
Ariakas
10-31-2010, 02:36 PM
That's a loaded question for me. lol... .
Since this is kind of the hookup area, I bet "where are you from" is actually "where are you currently located"
Cool life you have lived, quite well traveled. Living in a very backpacker town I know a lot of people with similar stories. I can be very envious of that kind of life...:)
A couple here looking for some local friends. Or just someone to chat with. A blacksheep couple eventually looking for a gal with LTR qualities. One who likes dogs. Really small. Really cute ones.
Oh AND if anyone has any life secrets to share...now is the time to unleash upon me the brilliance that is you! Word.:D
sunflowershower
11-27-2010, 11:30 PM
Central Florida
Looking for a bi woman who wants a loving relationship. Open minded to everyone!
UsinMiami
11-28-2010, 02:50 AM
We're just south of Miami.
LT4everu2
11-28-2010, 01:57 PM
Tampa area for now moving to Clearwater/St Pete soon :)
Ithink
11-29-2010, 02:36 AM
We are in west central Alberta, Canada in the foothills of the Rocky mountains. We are currently living as a couple and hoping to meet other Poly people to share stories, experiences and lives.
IThink.
Setxfamily
12-20-2010, 06:28 PM
We are a couple that lives just outside the Houston, TX area
We have 2 kids 3 cats and one dog and we live in a quiet and safe city close to the sea with a wonderful school district. We are looking to form a MFM or MMF relationship with a compatible fellow(s) or more if everyone clicks. Families are welcome as well. We are a non-smoking family as well.
We are also always open to making new friends and we have a pretty private house with a mostly private backyard so we can all enjoy ourselves and relax.
Looks like I'm the first to say I'm representing the Chicagoland area!
Bboooooo where are the all Chi-town peeps hiding? :p
lovinhimloviner
01-12-2011, 06:41 PM
My H and I are from Central IL. 33 and 35 yo. H is currently dating someone but we are looking for a female for a long term V or triad. We are also very open to what life might bring us. I love the idea of having another man in my life as well.
ThisisGabe
01-21-2011, 03:25 AM
Guy in the south bay, saratoga
Curiouscpl190
01-28-2011, 12:02 AM
We live in the KC Metro area we have been married for 30 years. We are both 52 we are both bi and looking for a bi cpl for a LTR. We are not Hwp. If interested please respond.
brainfreezy
01-31-2011, 05:19 AM
Married couple in Littleton, seeking people for friendship (and maybe more)? Looking to expand our horizons far beyond our beige lifestyle, one step at a time.
indyangel2011
03-24-2011, 02:10 AM
I am located on the southside of Indy. 20 years old, happily married for 2 years. I am bi, but sorta inexperienced with girls, and I am looking for another girl to be friends with and maybe more if it's the right girl. My husband is sort of new to the idea, but is completely accepting of my wanting to be with a girl as well as be with him. But I am still young so I want to take time to get to know somebody before it gets to serious.
Deremna
04-07-2011, 06:53 PM
I live in Las Vegas! (Sin City, not New Mexico!)
I am in a committed, long term relationship with a straight male.
We are currently investigating our new found interest in polyamory but would eventually like a bi woman to be part of our triad.
sailtwins
04-13-2011, 01:23 AM
Are living now?
We are in Pasadena CA
for now Jersey Shore but soon to be Seattle :)
Setxfamily
05-02-2011, 01:03 AM
Once in Seattle a long time ago (still have family there) but currently in the Houston, TX area for now and the forseeable future.
Kambicpl78
01-08-2012, 09:01 AM
BC, Canada. (West coast Canada)
barb1000
01-08-2012, 08:39 PM
M/F married couple in southwest GA. I am 36 and he is 39.
Looking for a woman interested in a long term triad relationship with a loving, laid back couple.
aquemini
01-20-2012, 06:31 AM
we are currently in Orlando, FL... both from the Detroit, MI/(various)Ohio areas... planning to head west end of this year, San Fran is on our minds but who knows where the wind will blow... also planning to move out of the country after being out west a year or two...
we are looking to share our love... would love a female life partner to complete a triangle triad but practicing remaining open to new ideas ;)
threesnocrowd
01-20-2012, 02:38 PM
We are a married couple in our early 30s looking for a single male for a MFM relationship. We would consider a select female too. We are in Upstate NY and are cool nice, people. :) Hope to hear from someone and we with you all good luck in your search!
sweetgirl608
01-22-2012, 05:09 PM
Where a couple in madison looking for a girl to join our relationship
lafuncpl318
01-22-2012, 08:37 PM
We are from the great cajun state of Louisiana :) North central part
thesaj
01-23-2012, 03:29 AM
well single male in murfreesboro, tn
looking to have a fmf and would consider more than three people and would consider a mmf.
more leaning towards an ltr but will definitely consider shorter
butterflyrose
01-24-2012, 01:28 AM
Central Wisconsin....any other Wisconsinites on here??
We are a stable, loving couple looking to share our friendship, love, and lives with another woman.
GraceSmith
02-01-2012, 08:51 PM
From the place where nothing ever really happens.
Pretzels
02-02-2012, 01:02 AM
We're in the pretzel capital of the United States or the world. I can never remember which....
Keiuna
02-09-2012, 10:01 PM
The Okanagan valley. B.C. Canada.
25 year old bi male in a long term relationship with my g/f. Currently doing the long-distance thing and looking for people in the Okanagan/Vancouver area who are like minded polys for friendship and mutual emotional support!
Shoot me a PM or a friend request if you want to talk or have questions :D
kosmoedimpz818
02-22-2012, 04:07 PM
We are a couple of the san fernando valley area in California looking for a single female to join our relationship with us;)
Nerdpower13
02-22-2012, 06:49 PM
Married guy in Danville, Virginia looking for cool nerdy girls to chat with and maybe eventually date.
LadyNiah8504
02-22-2012, 11:10 PM
Central Illinois, surrounded by corn fields.
Esperanza
02-23-2012, 04:38 AM
I was born in Colorado but I was raised in the Chicagoland area, specifically Milwaukee, WI and now I've been living in San Antonio, Texas for the last 6 years. I am 31 and am in a triad poly relationship with my girlfriend and her husband and have been in this relationship for the last 4 or 5 months. We enjoy it very much.
dfff00
02-23-2012, 06:59 AM
Sittin' in a hovel in Austin.
Esperanza
02-26-2012, 04:24 AM
Sittin' in a hovel in Austin.
I spent a weekend in Austin once and had a wonderful time. I was visiting a very good friend and we went to a LGBT nightclub called "Kiss And Fly" and we had a wonderful time. I plan on going to visit her once her family drama has settled down (illness in the family and financial issues) again. Austin is a wonderful and gay friendly city. I can't wait.
JaneQSmythe
02-26-2012, 06:28 PM
We are in SW PA.
MFM 30-something Vee.
Not "looking" for anyone/anysomeones in particular but not closed to the possibilities should they arise.
KyleKat
02-26-2012, 06:42 PM
We are from central Illinois in a little farmer town surrounded by rows and Ross of corn and beans!
If anyone from Illinois is out there and would like to chat, drop us a line.
MimiPhryxus
02-26-2012, 11:29 PM
Currently in TN, about to move to Alaska
Currently seeking friend and community
salamander254
02-28-2012, 06:29 PM
I go to school in Rochester, NY, but I grew up in Connecticut, so I live there in the summer and visit frequently.
polyheather
05-03-2012, 03:19 AM
A good way for us all to get to know a bit about each other.
Share only the amount of informaiton you are comfortable with.
Where are you from?
What if anything are you looking for?
Heather from Indiana age 31:p
Fourgreatapes
05-06-2012, 06:20 PM
TJ and MJ in New Hampshire. We are looking for like minded people in our area and to connect with another man or couple.
titanvictory
05-06-2012, 06:59 PM
We are from Utah and looking for a female for a possible triad. If you are the one please send us a message:)
AlexK
05-07-2012, 06:27 PM
Hi everyone. We are from northwest Indiana. Poly-newbies here looking for advise and friends. We are a couple who has a friend we play with often. We have talked to her about having a relationship. We all are in our 30's. We have kids. I dont know. Thats all for now. Haha:cool:
Addie
05-08-2012, 03:43 AM
Indianapolis, Indiana. :)
gail69
05-10-2012, 12:56 AM
We are from London, Ontario, Canada
M31, F42
Originally from Indianapolis now living in Portland, OR (well, not actually Portland, but close enough). :D
LookinginOK
05-14-2012, 02:10 AM
We are in NE Oklahoma. We are looking for friends, and possibly more.
contreras114
05-14-2012, 02:52 AM
We are in north Texas
LadyKane
05-14-2012, 06:11 AM
Lane County, Oregon here :)