Okay...I'm sticking my toe in the water....

[Basia942]

Hello All :) Obviously, I'm new, and I'm also from Michigan, looking mainly for other women but am open to talking with anyone really.

I'm not really a vanilla girl but have maintained a vanilla facade for a long time, and it has dawned on me that it's time for me to start living my life the way I feel I need to, regardless of what society deems *right*. Anyway! Hi! haha Hope to hear from someone...everyone...anyone!

M.

[NeonKaos]

So are you Dominant or submissive? You like spanking, bondage, or what?

[Basia942]

Well, I wasn't using the vanilla term with regard to BDSM necessarily, but moreso in the respect that polyamory isn't really...mainstream? But since you asked...haha...I will provide my website information to you, Doll, if you're interested. Just Im or email me. Thanks for the response! M.

[XYZ123]

Welcome.

[Basia942]

Thank you, XYZ :)

[Rarechild]

Whereabouts in the great state of MI? ( show me on your hand) :)

Welcome and I hope you find the forum informative and a safe place to talk about your explorations.

[NeonKaos]

Ya, I'm in Massachusetts so it would be kind of hard to spank someone all the way from Michigan.

[Fidelia]

Hi, Basia. Welcome to the forum, and
Happy Hunting!
:)

[Basia942]

Hello Rarechild :) I'm a mid-Michigan girl, and you?

[Basia942]

Hmm...I understand Ygirl...and I appreciate you saying that, though...I'm usually the one teaching the lessons. :)

[Basia942]

Thank you for the welcome, Fidelia. :)

[Rarechild]

Hello Rarechild :) I'm a mid-Michigan girl, and you?

Kalamazoo. :) **points at lower left side of back of hand**

[Basia942]

Ahh, the Zoo...nice. I always listen to that radio station - the Zoo - on my way to Chicago.

[aussielover]

Hi and welcome!

LMAO @ you and ygirl hehehehheehe...

I WAS from SW ontario, about an hour from Port Huron, but now living down under with my loves.

[River]

I've heard that folks in Michigan do it with their hand!

[Basia942]

Hello Aussielover...thank you for the welcome. :)

[Basia942]

Tis true, JRiver! The hand is the way to go. hee hee...

[MonoVCPHG]

Welcome!

[Basia942]

Thank you, Mono...I *do* feel welcome! :)

[SilverPhoenix]

*waves from behind Basia* You were here before me (at least I think so) but hihi anyway. :D

[Basia942]

Hello backatcha, SilverPhoenix! Welcome to you too!

[Rarechild]

I've heard that folks in Michigan do it with their hand!

It's a cultural phenomenon. I tried not to the first few years I was here, but really, it's quite handy. (sheesh) I wonder if Italians show people where they live in a similar way... (shutting up- living in Michigan also makes you more corny than you ever were, I'm from NJ so it took longer for me, but alas, 8 years in..)

[vandalin]

Welcome to the forums!

[Basia942]

Hello Vandalin, and thanks for the nice welcome! :)